We had a class party today and everyone brought food. We had mountains of shwarma sandwiches, stuffed pastries and sweets. The students actually cooked themselves instead of having their housemaids do it so it was very authentic. I learned today that the reason that there are always tons of plates of food at these things is that they always make up platters and spread them around to other classes/people who couldn't be at the party. There was a store bought cake with KitKat bars all around the edges and malteesers on top.
It's about 50 degrees right now but you wouldn't know that to look at my back yard with all it's lush greenery. The owners have told us that we can pick some of the fruit but I'm hesitant to do so in case the gardener gets blamed for anything missing.
|I don't know what these are|
|ever present date palms...they clump them together for bagging and easy picking.|
|Linda, Me and Sharon...all dressed up and tipsy on champagne|
I went on a tour of the gold souq, the Pakistani market and the ababya (dress) shops in town. The gold souq was really interesting. When an Emirati woman gets married, she is given a lot of gold by the groom. It can range from $25,000 to $100,00. This gold is supposed to sustain her if something happens to the husband but with a 50% divorce rate in the country, the gold has become a problem. If the woman wants the divorce, she has to return the gold and if the husband wants the divorce, she can keep it so what's happening is that husbands will try to force the woman to ask for a divorce.
Our guide told us that before the wedding, the mother of the bride will tell the mother of the groom what sort of things that the bride would like and the mother or her son goes out to get it. Typical pieces include a heavy belt.
|Belts and a few light weight necklaces|
A heavy necklace that covers the woman's breasts.
And a head piece that drapes over her hair. The gold is usually 24K and is very yellow. I didn't really like the color and apparently they've opened a few shops in the Dubai Gold Souq that cater to western tourists looking for 14k. The designs were elaborate and really fanciful.
An abaya is a black cover that women wear to go outside. This sounds like a form of oppression to westerners but here, it's a fashion statement. They mix up the cuts of cloth, the trims, the decorations and the shapes. The current trend is to tie a rope around the waist which is very daring because the abaya is supposed to hide a woman's shape. They cost about $200 in the shop we visited but our guide says that his sister shops there so we could get a deal if we wanted. I have an ababya from last year's National Day festival so I don't need another but they were fun to look at.
|The top pieces are shalas that the women cover their hair with|